The First Date Part I

“Would you like to get together for a cup of coffee sometime?”

“I’d really like to get to know you better. How about we get some dinner, when are you free?”

“Damn bitch you fine! Let me take you to Taco Bell and then we can go back to my place for some disappointing first night sex!”

These are just a few lines that guys will give a woman of interest in hopes of scheduling a first date. If the guy does everything right when first meeting a woman, then she will most likely say yes. But what if she does say yes? What happens next? Should you take her to the drive thru or eat your nacho bell grande inside? Read on and I’ll show you what it takes to not only ensure that your first date goes well but it will also lead to the second and third.

Where to Go

The very first problem to overcome when dating a woman for the first time is where to take her. Lots of guys automatically think they’ll get dinner and a movie but lots of guys don’t get past the first date. When you’re watching a movie in a dark room for 2 hours with someone you really don’t know, there is no rapport being built. You will both leave the theater without knowing a damn thing about each other. Going to dinner on the first date isn’t a terrible idea because you get to talk while enjoying your meal. However, what I’ve found is that these dinner-and-a-movie dates will run you about $50. That’s a lot of money to spend on a date with someone you may never see again.

First Date Night should consist of something fun, yet inexpensive. You DO NOT want to be breaking the bank to date a woman you don’t even know. DO NOT get caught up thinking that you have to impress your date by taking her to expensive restaurants and spending tons of cash. Women are more intuitive than we are; they know when you’re trying to impress them.You need to be careful here because if you’re dating the type of woman who is materialistic and is only seeking security, then she will continue to go out with you only because she knows you will spoil her.

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A walk in the park allows you to connect with and get to know your date and it won’t cost you a dime!

Instead, consider taking her for a walk in the park or simply meet out for happy hour. These are inexpensive options that allow you to get to know who you are dating on a more personal level. Going for a scenic walk with a woman is my favorite activity because it costs me nothing but time. Then, if you actually find the woman interesting you can proceed to go to a movie or out to eat. At the same time, if you do not feel any connection you can end the date immediately without spending a dime.  The same goes for happy hour; if you enjoy each others company you can order food or go to the next place to eat. But if you don’t feel the vibe, you can close your tab and wish her a good night.

This should give you a better idea of what to do or where to take your woman on the first date. What about during the date? What should you say? What should you do? Find out next time on DRAGON BALL Z!!!

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4 thoughts on “The First Date Part I

  1. That’s actually some great advise! It’ so true that we know when a guy is just trying to impress us, and it’s a great point that a materialistic woman will stay with someone they don’t even care much about just because he has money or is willing to spend money on her!

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